2 wire aux ‘spare’ orientation help

[Lewie]

I’ve not got the bike so close to me and wanted to prep the Zumo loom

ive bought a 2 pin connector to utilise one of the spares on the bike- can anyone tell me what parts on the bike and the orientation of the wires 

This is the type I’m talking about

thanks

 

[Liquidape]

I believe that the connector in the bottom of your picture is what on the bike. So you would wire the Zumo to the upper connector in your photo. That said your bottom connector looks a little different than what I have on my bike. See the photos below. Yours has an extended locking tab where mine does not. 
Might be that my bike is a US bike made in Japan, and yours was made in France?